the funniest part is that they still don't find anything wrong w their opinions, which is, war is necessary and needed and lives dying out there r never their concern, and even w the situ that I'm living better off on my own, they do believe that i should get back to their daily conversations and return to the so-called normal life. i guess Chinese just LOVE to gather together and act and think like a team, it's forbidden and unacceptable to be a solitary, or even a simple individual