何伟新书Other Rivers
There was an entrance gate to the old campus, but nobody was on duty. North drove through the open gate, following a narrow road bordered on both sides by overgrown bushes.
We passed faded signs with government slogans:
THE PEOPLE'S CITY IS BUILT BY THE PEOPLE THE PEOPLE'S CITY SERVES THE PEOPLE
BUILD A HYGIENIC CITY
CREATE CULTURED URBAN CITIZENS
💬This reminds me of what it is to be a correspondent, or to write a nonfiction. Simply writing it down is an act of significance.
在我读完糊弄学豆瓣小组所有精华帖之后,发现糊弄学有以下几种不同的使用情况:他人询问你不想回答的问题,他人向你寻求建议但是其实并不好提建议,他人分享自己的情况-正向,他人分享自己的情况-负向,适当糊弄自己。
今天先归纳糊弄学part 1: 如何回答不想回答的问题
方法一 把话题甩回对方身上
问:你房子买在哪儿的?
答:怎么了,你要买房吗?
对方可能答:没有,我就是随便问问。
答:啊,这样啊。
结束
方法二:用我仔细想了想还是+ 重复对方的提问内容
问:你为什么要换工作呢?
答:我仔细想了想,还是要换工作。
问:你怎么这么晚还不找对象?
答:我仔细想了想还是晚点找对象。
方法三:我觉得挺适合我的。
问:你为什么喜欢这个人啊?
答:我觉得挺适合我的。
问:你为什么大冬天怎么穿这么少啊
答:我觉得挺适合我的。
方法四:善用有的,有的
问:今天比赛怎样
答:还行,有的组比较强,有的组比较弱。
问:单位同事怎么样?
答:还可以,有的好相处,有的不太好相处。
问:你考得怎么样?
答:唉不知道,有的题难,有的题简单。
难题一:你工资多少?
正常工资,比有些单位高,比有些单位低。
你工资多少?
够用。
你工资多少?
不多,刚好混个养活自己。
你工资多少?
工资多少都不够买房 现在房价太贵了 姑姑小姨三舅妈你们的房子现在多少钱啦?准备卖嘛?准备买新房投资嘛?现在好多人买基金理财你们有这个打算吗?
难题二:最近忙吗?
还行,就每天做的每天的事情。
-Have you ever had one of those days where nothing at all that monumental happens but by the end of it you have no idea who you are anymore or what the hell you’re doing with your life?
-Uh, about once a week.
I mean, just because her life went one way and yours went another doesn’t make your life any worse.
Stuart, don’t get married. Look, I’m sorry. Being in a couple is hard. And committing, making sacrifices, it’s hard. But if it’s the right person, then it’s easy. Looking at that girl and knowing she’s all you really want out of life, that should be the easiest thing in the world, and if it’s not like that, then she’s not the one. I’m sorry.
preppy girl out🩹🧻🦦